Freshman in LoveThu, Nov 30th 2000
OK, here goes. I am a 14 yr old freshman in high school. I have a mandatory class called success that just basically teaches how to get a job, etiquette and basic stuff like that. Well, I am in love with my teacher. I'm guessing she's around 23 or 24. I have felt this since the first day I had her class. I tried to tell whether it was love or just a crush, but I know it was love. Not a minute goes by that I don't think about her. I am failing a class partially because she is always on my mind. I keep trying to find the courage to tell her about this but never do. As far as I can tell, she is not married because she never talks about a husband or kids or anything, and she doesn't wear a ring. I know there are like laws that restrict such behavior between students and teachers but frankly I don't give a (obscenity deleted). Excuse the French but I just really don't care about much else now that she is in my life. I only have her class one semester and I feel obligated to tell her because if i don't I feel I will explode. She is the most beautiful woman I have ever seen in my life and any feedback would be greatly appreciated.
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