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Mistake Maker

Mon, Sep 30th 2002

I know I have made a mistake. I met a man about 7 years older than myself with a very busy lifestyle. That was my attraction to him. He seemed like a nice man. Well one thing lead to another and we ended up having a sexual relationship. Instead of growing from there he acted like I didn't exist anymore. Taking advice from my friends I made the phone calls, I am from the old school where the lady doesn't call the guy. I tried to see if there was something the matter. Well, the response was "I'm ok living alone" and " There is no chemistry". I feel like I have been used and discarded. I also am at a lost on how to go on. He wants to remain friends and I don't want to see him at all anymore. I'm feeling very down and continue to think about him. I cared about him a lot. It's funny we even talked about marriage the last time. I thought we were headed the right direction. It's been a month&1/2 since I've seen him. I feel like the thoughts have taken over my life. I think and remember many good things throughout the days. How can I overcome??

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