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Hello Anne my name is 'M' my friend has dumped me for the tenth time in our 5 year relationship. I want to know if you could help me understand why he keep coming back to me. And then turns around and hurts me again. He always gets upset with me because I will call him 2 or 3 hours after I get home from work and then call him again when he doesn't call me back sometimes he doesn't call me until day or two later. This makes me very angry because what I want to talk to him about may not be important a day or so later. He told me that I was crazy if I think that he going to call me back when I want him to and he will only call me back when he wants to. I am very much in love with this man. And don't understand why he treating me this way. Do you think he trying to get rid of me. Do you think I am crazy for still loving this man when he is treating me like this. I also had some problems with him cheating on me over the years. I would always take him back. I am so afraid that he is going to come back to me this time because he knows that I have a weakness for him. Every time I take him back and he hurts me again seem as if I get stabbed deeper and deeper in to my heart. I brought a book called " Don't Call that Man " by Rhonda Findling. It don't seem to help. I am sitting here with tears in my eyes very afraid that I will pick up the phone and call him and he will either annoy me or call me and tell me off. Please give me some advice on this matter. Thanks Going Crazy!

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