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What Does He Really Want?...Wed, Nov 11th 1998I have been dating this guy for almost 6 months now. Over the summer I went out of the country for 4 months, after only about a month and a half into our relationship. I ended up moving all of my stuff into his apartment, and he watched it while I was gone. During the 4 months, we kept in touch, always maintaining our love for each other. Then he said he cheated on me once while I was gone, but he said he still loved me, and the only reason he told me was because he didn't want any secrets between us. I want to believe him, but I'm having a hard time. After returning home, we lived together, but weren't getting along, so he said maybe I should get my own place. I moved out, but now he says that sometimes people say things that they don't mean, meaning he didn't really want me to move out. But, even though he was the one who helped me move out, he never said "Don't go." Is this guy just messing with me or could he really be sincere? THE ANSWER TO THIS QUESTION WILL NOT BE DISPLAYED UNTIL YOU HAVE INDICATED YOUR AGREEMENT WITH THE DISCLAIMER PRINTED JUST BELOW. CLICK THE 'I AGREE' BUTTON TO AGREE TO THESE TERMS AND SEE THE RESPONSE.
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