Should I Switch Therapists? Sara, Nov. 4, 2008Tue, Nov 4th 2008
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Does that mean that I should switch therapists, then? Because the one I've been seeing has hit on me! Though I do find him attractive (very much so, truth be told). I always seemed to manage to put that aside as I have a couple of issues that I feel really need work....plus, I'm a married woman (part of what I've been seeing him for, as...well, let's just say there's 'trouble in paradise'...I have some unmet needs, etc.). I don't know how it happened, but he kissed me.....and I kissed back! And though it shames me to admit it, was HOT! I guess he was attracted to me too? Because, even though I was completely open and honest w/him, I did NOT flirt (if I ever flirt with you, trust me, YOU'LL KNOW *lol*) I don't know how to go back without the fear of things being awkward now...And I am afraid of how he feels. Does he regret it? I can't believe I'm saying this, but part of me doesn't want him to.... Maybe I should change therapists, as I can see now this is now become WAY too complicated than it oughtta be...Thanks for letting me vent!
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